At times, life’s responsibilities are so overwhelming it is hard to remember whom we are and what we like to do.
We try so hard to keep it together, then it is so easy to land onto the couch and watch an episode of Gunsmoke or something. Yet, is it becoming our thing, our habit to drop and chill? Is there any other way to reconnect with the joy of living the life?
My Dear mother in law is living with us. She is 101 years old. Overall it is going fine. My husband nor I feel well and it makes everything so challenging.
Thankfully, she does not complain much and goes with the flow.
A friend makes pound cakes and shares by showing up at bad times and gives these to encourage others. Although it has been a couple years and she is going thru so much herself. I believe she deserves some pound cakes. I asked Lisa to share her recipe and she did. I know there are thousands of poundcake recipes online, but there is nothing like one shared by a friend you know to be good. I brought Marcia into the kitchen and we visited as I put the cake together. It was a nice experience and it turned out well. This afternoon Marcia looked at me and said, where is this cake we baked?! So I brought her a big piece and she liked it. Which of course made me very happy.
Today, I just wanted to be in bed. Everything hurts and I am tired. This week there has been plans to teach a young lady how to sew pillows an insert the forms. Her mother and she picked out many nice fabrics at a fabric store and pillow forms. Marcia enjoyed watching us girls measure, cut and sew. All turned out fine and it was a joy. Her mother gave me some of the lovely fabrics. What a treat!
When I plan time w others I have to think ahead for the meals to avoid temptations of eating out. Our middle son Brock gave me a rice cooker so tonight I dropped in frozen chopped Peppers an onions, a couple packages of jumbulia ricean beans, Conecka sausage, chicken broth and pinto beans and just let it cook itself in this rice cooker It turned out very well with minimal effort. When your just tired it makes you happy when things turn out well.
We made an agreement this week to really watch how we spend and that we want to live on the leaner side. We do not always recognize how easily we live in a luxurious manner. We meaning anyone. We want to pay off any debt and live within our means more closely. Circumstances change and are we really prepared for them?
My friend Vickie, her husband is dealing with extreme health issues, she has a special needs son besides. Vickie has always managed to keep her home together, help others and go for walks. We were talking tonight and reminding each other of the importance of having little things you like to do. Making time to do these activities. Vickie is accepting help from others to take her husband for his treatments. It is humble of her to accept the help because he and she has been good to so many over the years. He gains encouragement from spending time with others and experiencing their care for him.
A family we cherish in the Panama City, Florida area that was affected by the hurricane expressed today that they are just longing for some normalcy. We really were designed to have routines and steady circumstances. Our creator designed us to be stable and that is what we yearn for. When our world is upside down we are too! They will be coming for a brief visit in a couple weeks and we look forward to it.
I am taking a course with the Tidy Tudor. It is very enjoyable. About good habits and ways of thinking that affect our life in a more healthful manner. I am not naturally organized and would like to be. Kathy Roberts is very motivating with a new step each day or concept to consider.
Right now the house seems a mess and it has only been six days that I finally got a shot to settle my asthma down. I am not up to par. My husband and I neaten up and Vaccume before bed because we like it looking nice when we get up. Somehow, it gets totally destroyed each day, I do not know how it happens.
Three points to get out of all my jibber jabber.
- Remember some activity you always enjoyed doing and include that in your life. Whether it be working out, dancing, tennis, woodworking, needlework, gardening or baking etc. make the time for it. It is important! Even Daily Bible Reading is considered to be the most valuable of activities to include in our life. I know making the time for it makes a difference in my outlook and attitude.
- Include people in your life no matter how crazy your life seems. People help keep our perspective healthful. I enjoy company, such a boost!
- Habits and routines are sanity keepers. If it is difficult to get on track, ask for help or take a mini course. Tap into our reset button and just do the basics until recovery is bestowed on us. Choose something from each of the three on the list and see if it does not help a little.
Our lives are always changing and we must adjust or we can break under the pressure.
Written by: Gina Rydin of fatfitanfab.com