Vogue, Butterick, McCalls, the time I have spent dreaming through your pattern books an displays. Something I will always enjoy doing.
Yet, I have thousands of patterns. Do I need more? When does it stop?
How do I have more control? How can I actually use my patterns and reuse them? When do you say…I have all I need?
Getting educated is a fine place to start.
We sewist know more than we realize. It can aid us in our quest to avoid stockpiles of unnecessary hoarding. Hoarding, something many of us do yet because it might be in just one area we feel it is not hoarding. It is all part of our craft having materials and tools to work with.
Do you like YouTuber utube educational videos regarding your interests? Most of us do enjoy them. I was enjoying them when I realized that the influence was no longer about utilizing what I already owned, instead the influence was about acquiring more patterns and ordering more fabric. I felt greatly pressured to Spend time I do not have browsing sites shopping for fabrics and patterns. I felt encouraged to spend money I do not have. To acquire more of what I do not need.
Time! Money! Things! No ThAnkyou!!!
I have what I want and need. If I happen to be in a fabric store I am sure I will browse and purchase. It is natural really. However, what I long for is to be productive with what I have. Do you want to be productive with what you already have? That is the true thrill and satisfaction of any hobby.
A hundred years ago likely acquiring to the degree that we do in the last few decades was unheard of. People were truly productive and clutter was a rarity. People planned out their project, acquired necessary supplies and proceeded to produce. They were more accomplished then than we are now with less stuff and supplies.
I have no intention of paring down my fabric and patterns, however I have made the choice months ago that I no longer care to regularly visit sites to browse merchandise. I do not need it and do not want it! Yea! That is an accomplishment.
Now we hear of hoarding, and clutter etc. some people like a lot around them and some people like the minimalist approach. I am absolutely ignorant to the minimalist approach however the few I know may be actually more productive than our hoarder friends because they can focus on the project at hand. They may purchase just what they need for intended project then make the project without all this distracting stuff around. That is the purpose to a craft to be productive and have something to show for your anticipated dream work. Not just housing a bunch of supplies like we are a store or junk shop.
Some are so obsessed with this thing called clutter and purging that creative endeavors are put on hold never to be happening. Cluttering their lives obsessing over new ways to handle all their supposed clutter. Spending money and time on a bunch of methods and courses to manage stuff instead of living life to the full. Either way it is sad some still are not gaining meaningful productivity or satisfaction.
Personally I am a stuff kind of person, dreams and projects always floating around in my mind as I work out details to accomplish what I rarely see thru to the finish. I view myself as an accomplished person. I make and do many things with the goal of being less a dreamer and more of a producer. It is satisfying blending the two, for me, I cannot have one without the other and I love it.
Please do not put off your dream like…I do not have the work space…are you kidding where haven’t I cut out fabric and pattern. Are you punishing yourself like a child? Are you self imposing that until my work area is cleaned up I cannot do my craft? You will never get to do your craft! Until my home is organized I will not gift myself the time…your home will never be organized and you will never get to. Do not use your art, craft as leverage to get yourself to do something else, that is not decent. Make the time for your obligations to be fulfilled. Make the time for your crafts.
Warning: They may conflict at times, yet being balanced is not being obsessed or overly restrictive with one compared to the other. We must practice good habits so we can make time for those we love and make time to do the things we love to do. I am striving to be more tidy by practicing better daily habits and routines. A program helping me is Kathy Roberts “Tidy Tutor”. Kathy is helping me practice more mindfulness regarding managing my home. I have a long way to go as I strive to practice routines and habits that create an environment more conducive to my goals of greater creativity. I also serve Jehovah the God of creation and order. Psalm 83:18. I desire to please Jehovah by reflecting his standards. I know he will definitely open the door of creativity with productivity even more so. This motivation and purpose fuels my efforts more so, something God can bless.
There are many productive ones on utube YouTube that share their Makes videos and I appreciate it so much. They are motivating. We must spur each other on to the truly satisfying accomplishment of Making. Go ahead, think of your craft, prepare, set up your work station, get your supplies for project laid out, set up a reasonable amount of time even in short sessions if you need to. Now get busy and make something! Make yourself glad and achieve your anticipated project with satisfaction.
The example I end with sounds very hoardish yet the lady was very productive with her crafts and sewing. She knew how to stow her stash and enjoy it. However, owning over two hundred cross-stitch kits, thousands of patterns, and everything related to sewing she had it all. When and how would she do it all? I cannot say because I may be just like her.
It is just satisfying no longer being in the market for more. No Hull watching for me, let us be an encouragement to each other to use what we have and treat ourselves to a buy with a greater rarity. If I buy a pattern or piece of fabric months down the road do not be too disappointed in me. Instead ask me what have I been making lately😃👍🏾.
Here is an example…we went to an estate sale. It appeared these people walked out the door with nothing an … how sad. Upstairs, a finished attic was every sewist dream. A very productive sewing room. Everything well planned out an organized. If I had $500.00 I should have offered it for the contents of the room. I bought a body form which I had been wanting. Thousands of patterns, organized in bins an drawers. Fabric stacked so nicely. Shelves an shelves. Sadly, this is just one of many similar estate sales I have been to.
3 thoughts on “Pattern Hoarding, Oh, My! Sewing patterns, how many hundreds of them do I need?”
I keep promising myself to make Monday’s my “Mending Mondays”! …and yet the stack grows little by little each week. Prioritization? or Procrastination? Not sure… Right now we aren’t wearing ANY of the closets full of clothes, bags, accessories and shoes… I only know we have forever and not allow stress over anything to lie that focus. We have an abundance yet clothing and fashion and style are always drawing our eyes in to thinking more is needed or would be ok. Rationalization or justification or… it’s ok. When it’s the time to let go we will.
Hi Rebecca, Thankyou for your comment. During these pandemic times our lives have changed so dramatically. Even giving us more at home time. Just taking advantage of this time we do not usually have to do some mundane job like mending can be very satisfying, because when the pandemic is over we want to jump into living again. The habit of snatching little bits of time for creativity is also an anti depression activity. Something Jehovah can bless. You do so many different things all the time I think your interesting.
I think your onto a great thought pattern. And so many are enjoying the ministry through the phone territories and letter writing while being generous to others in a variety of ways. That if a person uses sewing or knitting or whatever they like todo as a destressor I think that is wonderful. After all it is not about what we have. It is about what we do. Balance is a beautiful thing don’t you agree. One sister I know is doing paintings and it is really helping her. While another has built a chicken coop and is enjoying raising chickens now. Some are so depressed by things they cannot control and I wish they would knit or sew. Others are being obsessive imagining clutter And overworking the domestics when they could be productive in other ways. Each person has to decide. Mending Monday’s is a good thing. You can restore what you like in a matter of minutes. Your good at anything you do.