Life continues in a routine then something happens…the other shoe you anticipate in the back of your mind. You never know what and you strive not to be a pessimist. Whom wants to be in expectation of gloom?.
Can we be in expectation of good? How can we be recipients of good?
Imagine if you did not plant your garden because you believe a hurricane might come this year and wipe out your hard work. Denying ourselves the joy of gardening is a crime isn’t it. I believe Jehovah told Adam to tend the garden.
Not only would you miss out on the joy of planning your garden, the joy of working it, and the joy of the harvest Through out the season. Pessimism is the weed like effect in your garden of life.
We must root out the pessimism in our life. There may be reasons we base our pessimism as if it were fact.
Disappointments, hardships, and life’s realities could cause us to feel we are protecting our heart and mind by not having false hopes.
When we have belief systems in place because of prior experience or propoganda. This is an infringement that does not leave us open. For instance: I was born blond and have always been blond. However, I noticed those with deeper darker hair colors had others respect or confidence almost immediately. I dyed my hair a deep brown. Not only did I feel more confident, I noticed I was treated differently by the same people. Suddenly, competent! I am at my own hair color and happy about it. Yet, I learned a lot about people’s preconcieved notions.
Another attitude is about overweight people. Having experienced the stress of my own obesity after prolonged medical problems and medications, I understand all overweight people are not that way because of excessive food or lack of exercise. Some people are heavy because of medical problems and medications. Some people are heavy because of overeating and a lack of exercize. Do we really lose all our good qualities just because of a few extra pounds?.
If we believe “I will never be loved.” We are telling ourselves a lie. Maybe those whom were responsible to love an protect us have emotional damage themselves and they were not capable of love and approval. We could not be more loveable if the person does not know how to love. I felt unwanted and not loved as a child. It does not mean I was not loved. I have enjoyed loving and being loved. Jehovah has taught me how.
“I am unorganized” is another belief. Maybe you are unorganized! I am also unorganized. Good News! We can be more organized by practicing principles of time management and of personal habits. I am working this month to have an industrious morning routine. The fact is, I am cluttered, unorganized, and still completely optimistic of all I ever intend to do.
We watched the movie “Pollyanna”, Haley Mills, what a love, you feel she must be a fun lovable person in real life. I liked when she an orphan of a minister, was talking to the preacher, played by Karl Mauldin. She quoted from Abraham Lincoln, “if you always look for the bad in others, you will find it!”
I thought about this bad habit, if our habit is to look at ourself or a family member always seeing the bad, we will never see the good.
People are so bias, people like whom they like and will always recognize the good in them. And when a person does not like you, they will always see everything you say and do in a negative light. People are blind.
According to Jehovah all of us rank the same, we are all equally flawed with sin. If we want Jehovah to see the good in us, we need to see it in others. If our dislike for another blinds us, we need to ask Jehovah to open our eyes and help us to recognize what he sees in them, so we can be free to love them too. This includes, seeing ourselves more clearly. If we view only the good we are blind, if we view only the bad we are blind and crippled.
It is frustrating, sometimes, we want to change all at once, it is quite a hopeless helpless state. I have to beg Jehovah to help me see more accurately at times.
The end of this article is here, in conclusion, each day we are privileged to live, realistic expectations of ourselves and others makes for a joyful existence. It is time to plant the seeds entrusted to us as we hope for a most beautiful bounty.
This article is Dedicated to all my Dear friends whom continue to encourage me. And all whom read the articles, may your life be blessed with Joy and Optimism.